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Help For Victims of Domestic Violence In Spain

Help For Victims of Domestic Violence In Spain

In 2010, 73 women died at the hands of their partners in Spain, and this shocking statistic has given rise to the declaration that domestic violence in Spain is ‘the biggest cancer of Spanish society’. Certainly Zapatero’s Government have promised to redress gender imbalance in Spanish society but have yet to halt or decrease the rise in domestic violence, including an increase in violence against non-Spanish residents. In addition, Spain currently has one of the highest divorce rates in Europe – 1 in 2.3 marriages ending in divorce in 2009.

However, Spanish society is probably one of the most liberal in Europe too. Women have greater independence now, and Spanish men have come to accept that women will want to work, study and raise children, and will expect their partners to help juggle financial and lifestyle considerations. This is a radical change for a conservative largely patriarchal society in which women used to manage the home but have little responsibility beyond. These changes have been hugely beneficial for most Spanish women, along with reforms to laws for workers and families, but the downside is that it has put pressures on Spanish men in the space of a few generations.

Moreover, comparison with other countries in Europe suggests that domestic violence is increasingly common, but it is more fully reported in Spain than elsewhere. In the UK, 2 women are killed each week by a partner, which is a slightly greater statistic than the Spanish rate. But statistics don’t help victims in either country, or explain how it feels if domestic violence is happening to you, especially if you are far from the land you grew up in. The fact that you may be an immigrant simply means you are likely to have less family support and more need of social service assistance.

Warning Signs

In almost all cases, there are signs of violence before any tragedy occurs. According to the UK Crown Prosecution Service almost 35 incidences of violence occur before a woman reports the abuse to the police. In Spain, if you are making a new life here for your family, it is possible that you are even more likely to ignore the signs of violence until they escalate. Don’t wait to get assistance . If the situation is controlled before violence escalates into real danger and a violent partner gets help, you will have protected your entire family.

What can you do

If you are the victim of domestic violence in Spain, you should first report your experience to the police by dialling 091 (National Police) or 112 (for urgent assistance during an attack) and giving your name, address and the time of the incident. In Spanish the phrase is Violencia de genéro. Say: ‘Quiero informar un incidente doméstico de violencia. Querría hablar con alguien en inglés’ if you want to make the report and receive assistance in English. Before courts can issue a restraining order, they will have to confirm that the incident was reported in this way, but then they can issue a fast-track restraining order on a violent partner within a maximum of 72 hours.

Reports can be filed by the victim herself or by a neighbour, friend of family member who is aware of the situation. Gender violence is usually referred to as violence at the hands of a partner but in some cases it can be violence of another family member, such as a father. In cases of physical or sexual abuse, a victim will need to be examined by a doctor who is obliged to inform the police and can request police protection for the injured victim. Psychological abuse can also be reported and will be noted and can result in a restraining order. If your wage is less than double the national average you will receive immediate and free legal assistance to take the perpetrator to court.

Helpline in English

If you dial 016 in Spain there is a free confidential helpline to combat domestic violence problems. On the Spanish website for Ministry of Health, Social politics and Gender Equality, the section on Gender Violence includes information in English (and many other languages) detailing all the support available, including financial aid, access to women’s refuges, social and economic resources and advice for foreigners living in Spain. From the home page at go to the section entitled Violencia de género to read the information in Spanish, or go to the top of the page to convert the information into English.

On the website at the Alicante Provincial Council offers an Information Guide on welfare rights for victims of gender violence that you can download, including pioneering initiatives such as obtaining information on the aggressors status within the prison system if convicted, as well as more usual rights such as not having to face the aggressor in court at trial. This sets out in detail the legal process, the rights of the woman and children and ways to obtain maximum assistance. It is usually worth contacting your local British Consulate for help and assistance regarding domestic violence in Spain. provides information in Spanish and English about surviving domestic violence in rural communities in the UK, Spain, Greece and Sweden.


The web has a multitude of advice which can sometimes feel overwhelming to victims of domestic violence. The process of filing a report initiates a criminal procedure against a partner that the victim may still love, or feel conflicted about, because they may share children and a home. At all times, a victim should rely upon the advice of a close friend to assist them through the process and for this reason it is recommended that the victim immediately moves to a safe location after any significant incident. Whether you live in Spain or the UK, any victim can receive immediate help to combat domestic violence, but the first step is to discuss your fear or unease with someone you trust.

Comment on this Article

I was victim for 25 years. Finally fled back to UK in 2010. Police were useless! They were scared of him themselves. I found it difficult to make any denuncia as I still had to live in the family home. No protection was offered, no safe refuge and police could only hold him for 24 hours.
Lois Pearson - Sat 8th Dec 2018
One important point not mentioned here is that many sufferers of this abuse don't realize they are being systematically abused and brainwashed until something terrible happens. To a 'normal' person asking for help is sensible and makes sense. When you have been psychologically abused your way of thinking becomes distorted by the abuser to the point that you cannot tell their lies from common sense and therefore are too petrified to seek help.
Jo Webb - Thu 6th Dec 2018
Is there a refuge in the Marbella/San pedro area that I can help ? If not, the Malaga area.
Sally Hamp - Mon 19th Mar 2018
Are there any organisations like Samaritans in Spain for abuse victims that need volunteers? I would love to help.
Jean Genie - Mon 11th Jul 2016
If we are going to split hairs, it doesn't address the violence suffered by children either. It is simply based on the statistical evidence for the year 2010 : a year when 73 women died as a result of domestic violence compared to 0 men.
Tumbit -admin - Sun 2th Dec 2012
this article does not address, the issues faced by men who are victims of domestic abuse in spain, what if the man is the victim' - yes, it happens!!
Dave C - Sun 2th Dec 2012
In the majority of cases, charities that help victims of domestic violence are based in small geographical areas, so it will really depend upon which area you are looking at. Also, whether you are looking to find an expat charity or Spanish speaking charity to help out with - assuming of course, that it what you are meaning here ?
Jo Green - Thu 26th Jan 2012
I have come across at least 6 cases of domestic voilence during my time here in Spain and I want to do something to help
Loranne Dean - Sun 22th Jan 2012